There are some things in life that are much harder than others to get over and move on from. And a lot of that has to do with the emotional impact that it has on you. For example, it’s not hard to get over someone that you merely dated for a short while as compared to someone whom you were married to and had a lot of emotionally invested moments with. So, it is perfectly reasonable and understandable if you are finding it hard to move on from the divorce, especially when that means that you have to get back in the dating scene again.

One of the most common reasons why men find it so hard to move on and get back to dating after getting divorced is the fear of it happening all over again. It’s not uncommon to get the feeling or to have the fear that you might actually find someone that you click with, only to have it turn sour later on down the road. Another common reason is feeling uncomfortable about going out to be bars or clubs to try and meet women.