1) Smile.* Most good men won’t approach you without an opening. Smiling and making eye contact (even if just for a nano-second) will let him know you are open to being approached. It’s crazy, but if you do this, it will revolutionize your dating life. You’ll start meeting men EVERYWHERE! And if you don’t let men know you’re open to being approached, you could end up attracting the ones who don’t care whether or not you want to be approached. These are the guys who like the pursuit more than the actual relationship, and once you become interested, they will most likely lose interest.

2) Run away from your “type”! If this hasn’t worked for you in the past, there’s a good chance it won’t work this time. That doesn’t mean you can’t have passion. It just may not be there right from the start. Besides, initial chemistry just means he reminds you of your father or family at some level. That doesn’t mean you have to choose the guy you’d never have chemistry with. You may have initial chemistry with 10% of the men you meet. And there’s another 10% you’ll never have chemistry with. The 80% in the middle, that’s where you want to date.