There are a lot of negatives about having to go through a divorce, but there are also some positives as well and one of them is the ability to make a fresh start. Remember when dating after divorce you certainly don’t have to bring your old baggage into your new relationships. Starting fresh is not as easy as it sounds however, you need to make a conscious and concerted effort not to talk about your ex-wife around the new women you are dating. If you catch yourself talking about your ex or your divorce find a way to change the conversation immediately.