Posted by: sarah on: January 1, 2012
Give her oodles of attention on Monday and nothing for the next three days. Don’t be rude and don’t totally ignore her. This not so subtle change in your persona will quickly trigger the “He might not be into me” emotion in her.
By doing this she will realize that you have other higher ranking things in life sometimes. You have changed her thought process about you. The game is on and she (all of a sudden) doesn’t want to lose you. This is an easy key to seduction that men rarely use because they are so infatuated with a woman early in the relationship.
So in other words, don’t always show your cards. At least not at the beginning of the relationship. As you’ve heard me say many times, The “all in guy” has a very limited shelf life.
OK, you’ve waited the three days, now give her tons of attention again, then stop. She’ll get crazy with passion and she will be demanding more of your time.
You’ve broken your cycle of giving her too much attraction. This will have immediate results if she likes you. You’ll notice more back scratches and the things you like from her. Good luck and happy dating!